Benefice Blog 2024
Being appointed as the Vicar of the Haven Churches begins a whole new and exciting adventure with God. I feel very blessed to have been appointed to this post and I am looking forward to serving the four parishes and their communities.
I am the Revd. Karen Wilson and I have spent the past three years serving three parishes in Cornwall as their interim Priest in Charge.
I am married to Chris, who is a stock controller working for Tesco. We have been married for thirteen years but have known each other since we were youngsters. I could not do what I do without him; he is my listening ear, my support and has a fantastic sense of humour.
Chris has been a Lay Worship Leader for six years and has a passion for cooking, especially on the BBQ. It doesn’t take much encouragement for him to fire up the BBQ and don his apron. Much of Jesus’ ministry revolved around sharing meals with others from all walks of life. Chris and I enjoy offering our hospitality to others and Jesus’ example is one that we enthusiastically follow. We both enjoy hosting meals for others and there is always enough food on the BBQ to share!
We bring with us our two cats (one elderly rescue) and two dogs. We have a rescue white Pug called Willow and our English Bulldog Marnie. Both of our dogs are very sociable and are used to me stopping for chats to parishioners on their walks. Having dogs is a wonderful excuse to get out and to take a walk around the parishes and to stop for a chat.
If you happen to see me out and about do stop and introduce yourself. I will be taking time as I begin my new role to not only get the lay of the land but to get to know people and for you to get to know me.
I have a tea mug which carries the line, ‘More Tea Vicar?’ and, as far as I am concerned, there can never be too much tea! There’s not much that can’t be sorted with a good brew and a slice of cake. I hope you will soon get to know that I don’t stand on ceremony and am very happy to meet folk over a cuppa.
Both Chris and I are keen sea swimmers and enjoy body boarding. Willow loves to get into the water and to have a swim but Marnie is not quite as buoyant and needs a helping hand to stay afloat! We are looking forward to getting onto the beach with the dogs and to having a dip.
It won’t be the first time that I have lived on the island. I lived in Shanklin as a child and attended school in Lake. My parents owned a business and I have extremely happy memories of life there. Moving back feels very much like ‘coming home’ for me.
I am looking forward to taking Chris to the places I remember from childhood and also to exploring my new parishes.
I was Ordained in 2018 and my ministry is centered around being a ‘Parson’, God’s person on the ground. Being a visible presence in my parishes is extremely important to me. I like to get out and about as much as I can and to support the local shops and businesses. Being part of the community is key to my ministry and Chris and I enjoy a bit of ‘pub ministry’ in the evenings!
Before Ordination I worked in education for many years, working as both a teacher and peripatetic tutor. The last eleven years I spent as a Pastoral Support Manager in a Secondary Academy, with a year group of 230 students.
I feel that it is important to truly honour having the ‘cure’ or care of all souls in the parishes in which I serve, whether they are a church goer or not. The most important conversations have often started on a dog walk or from meeting someone in the local shop. It is a privilege to be able to serve others as a Priest and one which is never lost on me. Growing my ministry is to be constantly striving to be more Christ like, to love, to see the world through his eyes, and finally to love others as Christ loves each of us. For me being a Priest is a ‘life’, not a job or role.
Saying that, it’s important too, to recharge the batteries and have a good work/life balance. I will have one day off a week which I try and spend, ‘out, out', away from the Vicarage. On my day off I love to bake and to cook. I find it very therapeutic and relaxing. I have an Aga in the Vicarage kitchen which I am determined to learn how to use. I have heard that there is nothing like overnight porridge cooked in a Aga.
I also enjoy gardening and I would say that I am a keen amateur. One of the first things that I intend to do is to get the bird table and feeders up in the garden. I am keen to install some hedgehog houses and bug hotels as well. I find it thrilling to watch nature and to encourage wildlife into my garden.
Chris and I enjoy visiting the theatre and we enjoy ‘live’ music. I would say that we have an eclectic taste in music. I was brought up listening to swing (Frank Sinatra, Ella Fitzgerald etc) and jazz but also have a love for composers such as Byrd, Tallis and Palestrina. We both enjoy watching films and I have a penchant for old Christmas films. You can’t beat ‘White Christmas’ or ‘Holiday Inn’ for an afternoon’s entertainment whilst the Christmas tree lights are twinkling away.
I am looking forward to getting to know you over the coming months and to ministering amongst you. My fervent prayer is that my ministry is a blessing to Yaverland, Seaview, St Helen’s and Brading and I am sure that God has an exciting journey for us all to take together.
Revd Karen
November 2024
On Saturday 12th October 2024, St Mary the Virgin, Brading is launching a new interactive tour guide that can be downloaded onto smart phones.
Funded through a £10,000 grant from the National Heritage Fund and enabled through Info Point, a provider of interpretation boards, audio tours and multimedia guides for places of worship, museums and heritage sites, the new guide will give us the opportunity to Witness through Heritage, boost tourism and support the local economy.
The congregation has enjoyed creating the tour guide together, strengthening the church family and increasing the sense of community. The church is the likely location of the first baptism on the Island and we are hoping that the new guide will lead to St Mary's becoming part of an Island pilgrimage trail.
Joan Solomon
6 October 2024
As our schools re-open after the summer break, Sylvia Beardsmore reflects on starting the new year, and each new day, with a clean sheet...
It may surprise you to know that I was a sad child! Or maybe you already knew that!
As a child, a real treat for me was, not a visit to the sweet shop, or the toy shop, but to the stationers: notebooks, pens and pencils, erasers, pencil sharpeners, rulers, and even a protractor could fill me with excitement - even though I was not sure how to use the latter!
It is not surprising, therefore, that my favourite month was - and still is - September. As the retailers shout ‘BACK TO SCHOOL’, what they are really saying is, it is time to buy new uniforms, new shoes, new lunch boxes and, yes, a new pencil case. Even now I cannot resist scanning the shelves of the stationers, wistfully looking for the most attractive notebooks and pencil cases - and then all the goodies to fill it.
I am so pleased this year to have the excuse of Rita’s Gbatala project to indulge my wishes. But what was, or is, the attraction?
I think it was definitely the idea that it was new - a new notebook, unspoilt, with no mistakes, no crossings outs, and no blots or smudges. Of course, as you would expect, the pages did not stay like that for long. Soon the red markings and crossing outs would appear, and my spirits would plummet, just as when I make mistakes in my daily living. With the best of intentions at the beginning of the new day, by the time I go to bed the ‘page’ is spoilt and marred by the many mistakes I have made.
August has been a sad month for the Haven Benefice, with the passing of two of our longstanding and faithful members, whose obituaries appear in this month's edition of What's On – Sheila and Sandra. But it is not sad for them, only for us who are left behind and will miss them. As I sat with them and their families in their last weeks, I was reminded of these words from the Book of Revelation:
Then I saw a new heaven and a new earth, for the first heaven and the first earth had passed away... I saw the holy city, the new Jerusalem... now the dwelling of God is among mortals and he will live with them. They will be his people, and God himself will be with them and be their God. He will wipe every tear from their eyes. There will be no more death or mourning or crying or pain, for the old order has passed away.
Yes, this is the hope of the Christian gospel, that God makes all things new – even me, and I will have a new, clean page to start writing every day.
Sylvia Beardsmore
September 2024
We are delighted to be able to post the following official announcement regarding the appointment of the new Priest in Charge of our Haven Benefice. It is also being made to Karen's current churches this morning.
"We’re delighted to announce that the bishop has appointed the Rev Karen Wilson to be the new Priest in Charge of the Haven Benefice, subject to DBS checks. She’s currently an interim priest serving in Cornwall.
Karen’s licensing service will take place in St Mary’s, Brading, on Tuesday 12th November at 6.00pm.
Let’s pray for her and her future ministry with us now.”
There will be a piece on the Diocesan website on Monday, so please feel free to spread the news!
Please click here to visit Karen's Facebook Page.
Congratulations and blessings to all,
Helen and Rose
4 August 2024
The eagerly anticipated notice seeking applications for the position of full-time Minister of our Benefice has now been published in Church Times. Full details of the role are on the Diocesan website, with the latter including our Benefice Profile and also featuring a Video Profile presented by Graham Pountney. The deadline for applications is midday on 12 July 2024 with the date for interviews set as 24 July 2024.
14 June 2024
Our curate, the Rev Bevaly Rackett, reflects on the relationship between Easter - which, in the church calendar, lasts until Pentecost in mid-May - and Baptism...
In the church, Easter lasts a full 50 days, until Pentecost and the coming of the Holy Spirit. Shame the chocolate doesn’t last that long!
Since the very early days of Christianity, Easter has been closely linked with Baptism. Anyone wanting to be baptised (or Christened, which is the same thing) would be questioned about their faith, given religious instruction, and then take part in a full week of daily services, prayers, and fasting, before an all-night vigil of prayer and Bible reading before baptism at dawn on Easter day. That way the person journeyed with Christ to the cross and entered into their new life as a Christian in the joy of his resurrection (return to life).
Today, Baptism marks the beginning of a journey with God, which continues for the rest of our lives. For all involved, including parents, godparents and sponsors, it is a joyful moment when we rejoice in what God has done for us in Christ, making serious promises, and declaring our faith. The community of the church and friends welcome the new Christian, promising support and prayer for the future.
The service paints many pictures of what happens on the Christian way. The sign of the cross is made on the forehead as a reminder of Christ’s death for us. The covering with water represents drowning, dying to sin and being raised to new life with Christ, and a candle is given to show that Christ conquered evil so that everyone who is baptized walks in his light for the rest of their lives.
And what of the other symbols of Easter? Well, Easter chicks and butterflies remind us that new life comes from unexpected and often lifeless places – eggs or cocoons certainly don’t look very promising!
Spring lambs were offered at the Festival of Passover as sacrifices to say sorry for all the bad things people had done, so Jesus was seen as a similar sacrificial lamb, who gave his life so that we continue to be forgiven for all the bad things we do.
And Easter bunnies? Well, they are just cute, joyful – and also abundant, just like the life Jesus promises each of us when we commit to follow him.
Rev Bevaly
April 2024
Our curate, Rev Bevaly Rackett, looks at the Christian season of Lent, which this year begins in the middle of February...
Since early days, Christians have devotedly observed the events leading up to the death and rising again of Jesus Christ (known as his Passion and Resurrection). We prepare for this by a season of penitence and fasting, prayer, and study, known as Lent.
Lent, which starts on Ash Wednesday (which this year also happens to be St Valentine’s Day) is a time when Christians remember when Jesus was in the desert being tempted by the devil for 40 days. It’s a time of preparation for Easter, of self-examination, and of spending more time with God – in prayer and Bible study, in activities which help other people, and in fasting (giving up luxury foods such as chocolate, cakes or biscuits – which will be even more of a challenge on Valentine’s Day!)
That’s why we eat pancakes on Shrove Tuesday, the day before Lent: it’s a chance to use up rich foods like eggs, fats and milk, ready for more simple foods like fruit and vegetables. ‘Shrove’ comes from an Anglo-Saxon word, ‘shriving,’ which means to listen to someone’s sins and forgive them. Christians go to confession so that their souls may be cleansed.
It is a time to grow in faith and commitment to God. On Ash Wednesday we have a cross, made from the burnt ashes of last year’s palm crosses,put on our forehead as a sign that we have confessed our sins and have been forgiven. Check out the services to see where and when you can join us for this special service if you like. It is a time to change our habits, to look at our potential, and to try to determine what God is calling us to be doing now.
Why not spend some time during this Lent creating space for a personal encounter with God? God is always ready to connect with us - we just need to put aside the busy-ness of our daily lives and spend a little time talking and listening to Him (talking is easy, listening is much harder!) You never know what may come about after a conversation with God.
With blessings for the return of Spring.
Rev Bevaly Rackett
(Curate at the Haven Benefice)
February 2024
