There is so much more to spirituality and a life of faith than just Sunday mornings! There are books to read and practices of prayer to learn and lifestyle choices to be debated and shared. A healthy spiritual life helps to support us mentally and physically and gives life meaning but it also takes a bit of time and space to help it grow.
The churches of the Haven Benefice offer lots of opportunities for people to come together in free activities that anyone is very welcome to come and be part of. They are listed in our new leaflet available in the churches and summarised for you here.
Why not have a new beginning this year?
Happy New Year,
The Book Group Meeting at 7pm on the first Monday of every month in the Undercroft of St Peter's Church, Seaview and 10.45am in the church hall, Brading on the first Wednesday of the month. The book group is designed as a drop in discussion of the book of the month. The chosen book will be advertised by email, on the web site and in the pew sheets. If you fancy having a look at the book just let Ali know and come along to the discussion.
Film Club Meeting at 7pm once a quarter at times and venues to be advertised. The chosen film will be advertised by email, on the web site and in the pew sheets. After the film there will be a discussion and refreshments for those who wish to stay.
Prayer Group at Brading On the Second Monday of the Month, 7pm in St Mary's church or the hall. A prayer group meeting to share the concerns of the world near and far. Lay led on rotation, this is a gentle time of refreshment and fellowship. Open to all, just pop in.
Bible Study Seaview A friendly and informal look at the readings for the coming Sunday held in Seaview at 10.30 am on Monday mornings. Contact Sylvia for more details on 612600.
Wednesday Morning Communion Services St Catherine's Chapel St Helens 9.3Oam and St Marys Church Brading 10am. A short said service for quiet contemplation and fellowship
Contemplative Prayer Thursdays at 6pm in St Catherine's Chapel, St Helens. Using the ancient monastic practices of contemplation, this time of silent prayer for 30 minutes with time for sharing over coffee after, is designed for those seeking to learn more about how to pray silently.
'Living the Questions' Theology Evening Meeting at 7pm on the Third Monday of every month in the Undercroft of St Peter's Church, Seaview. With video material and with lots of space for discussion and questioning, this is the gathering for you if you would like to expand and deepen your horizons but it is also accessible and light.
Eco Church and Creation Spirituality The last Sunday of the Month at St Helen's Church 3.30-5.30pm Nature study, Crafts, Shared Meal and Thanksgiving. All ages welcome and especially designed for families Please text Ali (07500 007437) if you would like to be part of this so we know for food.
As I write this in November, we are approaching Remembrance Sunday and thinking about the 100th anniversary of the end of WW1. I'm sure you have heard the story of Christmas 1914, where a general truce was not officially called, but soldiers on both sides along the front line left their trenches to cross No-Mans Land; to offer one another friendship on Christmas Day. This act of humanity shows there is so much more to Christmas than just presents, food and parties. It is a time when we look for the best in each other and celebrate common humanity together. It is more than just a winter festival and a holiday, because Christmas remembers the birth of the man who gave to the world these stunning words of peace: 'Love your enemy and do good to those who hate you" . These words echo through the centuries, calling on all of us to be the best that we can be, and leading us to forgiveness and new peaceful beginnings this Christmas time.
So this Christmas and always in your churches all are welcome. Whether you are a frequent church goer or not, join us here to celebrate humanity, community and peace.
Sometimes I wonder if all people think we do in church is ask for money to try and keep the roof over our heads. I would love to say that this is completely untrue but in fact it isn't! We do spend quite a lot of our time on the committees of the church and with all the wonderful volunteers raising money to keep the fabric of our beautiful buildings from falling down. Every bill for the maintenance of the church is paid for by the local church, we receive no funds from the Diocese or National Church to do this. We keep these precious historic buildings in trust for the whole community thanks to coffee mornings and collections, concerts and donations.
So this is a piece to say THANK YOU... thank you all, for all you do to help us do this. Recently St Helens church received some very generous donations and has now raised half the money needed towards their refurbishment plans and are beginning the long and difficult process of grant applications to large organisations for the rest. They are also able, thanks to this generosity to do some very much needed work in the South transept to decorate the walls. This is not just a coat of paint, oh no. It is the removal of old paint and cement plaster and the re-plastering with lime plaster. This ensures that the precious fabric of the church can 'breath' and it is a specialised and costly business.
Walking into St Helens church today to work on plans I was struck once again by the deep peace and living silence that these churches hold in the heart of our communities and I am so thankful that through your generosity we are able to keep them open. I hope that you will appreciate the work that we are doing and continue to support us not just with money but also with your time and skills if you can.
In all the churches we are always looking for help and we will be advertising times when we will, all together, be painting, decorating and tidying the churches, halls, graveyards and gardens. If you have some time that you could spare us then we will provide the tea and butties!
So, look out for the exciting opening of the Undercroft kitchen at St Peters in Seaview, and for the decorating of the upstairs hall, Join us to refurbish the St Helens graveyard labyrinth and look forward to the £40,000 refurbishment of the St Marys organ just in time for Christmas. All this is possible because of You.... THANK YOU
Sometimes you will hear me say how much I love 'Theology'. And by this I mean that I love talking, thinking and debating about ideas of the mystery some people call God!
It used to be simple.... Everyone had the same beliefs aligned to particular cultures and countries (500yrs ago). But then we started moving about and encountering other ideas of God and life and the Spirit and the afterlife..... And we started to mix our ideas and to form our own belief systems outside of the normal religious establishments. So now there is so much 'out there', so many possible ways of seeing the meaning of our lives, of relating to others and the world around us.
Some people are happy to flow along with this without too much problem, others (like me), want to try and figure things out and find a belief system that works to live a fulfilling life.
As this view is 'from the Vicarage' it won't surprise you that the starting place for my exploration is Jesus and the religion that remembers his name, Christianity .... But I don't like to be confined and I acknowledge that ideas of God have to always be provisional.... Because we can never truly know ... if the word 'God' means anything, then it definitely means something much bigger than my tiny brain can hold! So....
With all that in mind I would like to invite you on an exploration and am starting the following evenings and opportunities. They are not courses, you will not be taught. They are not bible studies, they are much wider than that... Please do talk to me if you are at all interested and I will keep a list for numbers.
Theological Book Club... reading books, fiction and non fiction, together and sharing what we think, once a month at the Vicarage. First meeting Monday 5lh November 7pm (on the first Monday of each month after that. The first Book is 'The Shack' by Paul Young and I have some copies if you would like to borrow).
Living the Questions evening gathering, using set material to explore fascinating questions around the Christian faith... be prepared to think new thoughts! Monday November 19th 7pm at the Vicarage (and every 3rd Monday after that).
It is all about Happiness... we all want to be happy. Of course we do, but happiness is a slippery thing. There are things that we know 'make us happy' but sometimes they just don't 'work' any more. There are people we are usually happy to be around but sometimes they don't give us the happiness we are looking for. We can be happy in a new house, a new job, and a new relationship for a while but why does that fade over time?
There is a lovely little cartoon on you tube that explains this beautifully (Headspace/Happiness).
* It tells us that happiness is only found in the right here and now... how could it be anywhere else? But as we spend most of our lives and thoughts in remembering the past and dreaming about the future happiness can just pass us by.... remember happiness is a moment.
* It reminds us that happiness can't be sought or chased or forced... it just happens often when we are not expecting it.
* And it teaches that the surest way of allowing happiness to happen is to forget about our own happiness and to go and help another person be happy!!!
In our present 'me,me' culture this sounds a little odd ... but it is the absolute Truth.
This little cartoon is made by a Buddhist who is trained in meditation but the teachings of Jesus that instruct us in church are identical.
Jesus said... if you want to find your life you must first loose it... give it away to others.
If you want to find the peace and joy you are striving for…. then seek first for the Kingdom of God…. Seek first for the pleasure and joy of loving and serving your neighbour.
I know it all sounds very worthy doesn't it and a little counter intuitive.
But... as we practice this, live it and remind each other then Happiness will sneak up on us and curl up in our lap!